The Gay Test
This test is designed to help you explore your sexual orientation with thoughtful, research-informed questions. Unlike many online "gay tests" that rely on stereotypes, our assessment focuses on your personal feelings, attractions, and experiences.
Time
5-10 minutes to complete
Questions
20 thoughtful questions
Privacy
100% anonymous & confidential
Results
Instant assessment with resources
Note: This test is for educational purposes only and is not a diagnostic tool. Sexual orientation is complex and personal. Consider this as one step in your self-exploration journey.
Your answers are private and never stored
Question 1 of 20
How often do you find yourself emotionally attracted to people of the same gender?
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Question 2 of 20
How often do you find yourself physically or sexually attracted to people of the same gender?
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Question 3 of 20
How comfortable are you with the idea of being in a romantic relationship with someone of the same gender?
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Question 4 of 20
How often do you fantasize about romantic or sexual relationships with people of the same gender?
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Question 5 of 20
How do you feel about your potential attraction to people of the same gender?
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Question 6 of 20
How would you describe your emotional connection with people of the same gender compared to people of a different gender?
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Question 7 of 20
How do you feel about the possibility of being in a long-term relationship with someone of the same gender?
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Question 8 of 20
How do you feel about your body when thinking about potential romantic or sexual relationships with people of the same gender?
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Question 9 of 20
How do you feel about the idea of being publicly identified as LGBTQ+?
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Question 10 of 20
How do you feel about the possibility of having children or starting a family with someone of the same gender?
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Question 11 of 20
How do you feel about the idea of being intimate with someone of the same gender?
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Question 12 of 20
How do you feel about the idea of being in a committed relationship with someone of the same gender?
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Question 13 of 20
How do you feel about the idea of being in a relationship with someone of the same gender in your current social environment?
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Question 14 of 20
How do you feel about the idea of being in a relationship with someone of the same gender in a more accepting environment?
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Question 15 of 20
How often do you find yourself admiring or being attracted to the physical appearance of people of the same gender?
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Question 16 of 20
How do you feel when you imagine sharing important life events and celebrations with a same-gender partner?
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Question 17 of 20
How often do you feel a deep emotional connection with people of the same gender that goes beyond friendship?
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Question 18 of 20
When you think about physical intimacy with someone of the same gender, how do you feel?
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Question 19 of 20
How often do you daydream or think about being in a romantic relationship with someone of the same gender?
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Question 20 of 20
If you were to identify as LGBTQ+, how would you feel emotionally about embracing that identity?
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