Lesbian Test | Explore Your Sexual Orientation

The Lesbian Test

This test is designed to help women explore their same-gender attractions with thoughtful, research-informed questions. Our assessment focuses on your personal feelings, attractions, and experiences rather than stereotypes.

Time

5-10 minutes to complete

Questions

20 thoughtful questions

Privacy

100% anonymous & confidential

Results

Instant assessment with resources

Note: This test is for educational purposes only and is not a diagnostic tool. Sexual orientation is complex and personal. Consider this as one step in your self-exploration journey.

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Question 1 of 20

How often do you find yourself emotionally drawn to other women?

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Very often

Almost always

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Question 2 of 20

Do you find yourself physically attracted to women's appearances or physical features?

Not at all

Very slightly

Somewhat

Moderately

Strongly

Very strongly

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Question 3 of 20

How comfortable are you with the idea of being in a romantic relationship with another woman?

Very uncomfortable

Somewhat uncomfortable

Neutral

Somewhat comfortable

Comfortable

Very comfortable

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Question 4 of 20

How do you feel when you form deep emotional connections with other women?

I rarely form deep emotional connections with women

I see them purely as friendships

Sometimes I'm unsure if my feelings are purely friendship

I often feel unusually close to female friends

I frequently develop intense bonds with women

My emotional connections with women often feel romantic

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Question 5 of 20

Have you ever felt physically attracted to or had a "crush" on another woman?

Never

Once, but I wasn't sure

A few times, but not intensely

Several times

Frequently

Very frequently and intensely

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Question 6 of 20

How do you feel about the idea of dating or pursuing a romantic relationship with a woman?

I have no interest at all

I've rarely thought about it

I'm curious but uncertain

I'm open to the possibility

I find the idea appealing

I strongly desire this type of relationship

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Question 7 of 20

Have you ever felt jealous when a woman you're close to spends time with or shows interest in someone else?

Never

Rarely, and it felt like normal friendship

Sometimes, but I wasn't sure why

Occasionally, and it confused me

Often, and it felt stronger than friendship jealousy

Frequently, and it felt like romantic jealousy

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Question 8 of 20

How do you feel about physical intimacy with women (such as kissing, cuddling, or more)?

Very uncomfortable or uninterested

Somewhat uncomfortable

Neutral or unsure

Somewhat comfortable or curious

Comfortable and interested

Very comfortable and strongly interested

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Question 9 of 20

How do you feel when you see media portrayals of lesbian relationships?

Uncomfortable or disinterested

Neutral or indifferent

Supportive but not personally connected

Curious and drawn to these portrayals

I feel strong interest and connection

I strongly identify with these relationships

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Question 10 of 20

Have you ever had thoughts like "Am I lesbian?" or questioned your sexual orientation?

Never

Once or twice, but not seriously

Occasionally, but dismissed the thoughts

Several times and have given it some thought

Often and have seriously considered it

Frequently and have strongly questioned my orientation

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Question 11 of 20

Do you find yourself noticing or appreciating women's physical appearance more than men's?

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Very often

Almost always

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Question 12 of 20

When watching movies or TV shows, do you find yourself more drawn to female characters or their storylines?

No, I'm always more interested in male characters

Rarely, I usually prefer male characters

It depends on the character, not their gender

Sometimes, I find female characters interesting

Often, I'm more engaged with female characters

Almost always, I primarily connect with female characters

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Question 13 of 20

How do you feel about the idea of being physically intimate with a woman?

Very uncomfortable or repulsed

Uncomfortable

Neutral or indifferent

Somewhat comfortable or curious

Comfortable and interested

Very comfortable and excited

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Question 14 of 20

Do you feel that your deepest emotional connections tend to be with women?

No, my deepest connections are usually with men

Rarely with women

Equally with men and women

Somewhat more often with women

Usually with women

Almost exclusively with women

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Question 15 of 20

In your fantasies or daydreams about relationships, do women feature more prominently than men?

No, I exclusively fantasize about men

Rarely, men are usually the focus

Sometimes, it's mixed

Often, women are frequently featured

Usually, women are the primary focus

Almost always, I predominantly fantasize about women

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Question 16 of 20

When you see an attractive woman, do you feel a desire to look at her or be near her?

No, I don't feel that way about women

Rarely, it's just aesthetic appreciation

Sometimes, but I'm not sure if it's attraction

Often, I find myself drawn to attractive women

Usually, I feel a clear attraction

Almost always, I feel a strong desire to be around her

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Question 17 of 20

Have you ever felt drawn to LGBTQ+ spaces, events, or communities?

Never, I avoid those spaces

Rarely, only as an ally or with friends

Sometimes, I'm curious about these spaces

Often, I feel comfortable in these environments

Usually, I seek out these spaces

Almost always, I feel a strong sense of belonging there

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Question 18 of 20

Do you feel that a relationship with a woman would fulfill your emotional needs better than with a man?

No, relationships with men are much more fulfilling for me

No, I prefer relationships with men

I think both could be equally fulfilling

Possibly, I think a woman might understand me better

Likely, I feel women would meet my needs better

Definitely, I believe only a woman could truly fulfill me

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Question 19 of 20

When you imagine being physically intimate with someone, who do you most often picture yourself with?

Always with men

Almost always with men

Mostly with men, occasionally with women

Equally with men and women

Mostly with women, occasionally with men

Almost always or always with women

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Question 20 of 20

If you could choose freely without any societal judgment, do you think you would prefer to be with women?

Definitely not, I would still choose men

Probably not, my preference is for men

I'm not sure, I might be open to either

Maybe, I have thought about being with women

Probably, I feel more drawn to women

Definitely, I would choose to be with women

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Your Test Results

Based on your responses, here's what we've found:

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Overall Score

Heterosexual Bisexual Lesbian

Category	Score	Interpretation
Emotional Attraction	0%	-
Physical Attraction	0%	-
Romantic Interest	0%	-

Understanding Your Results

Important Note

This test is educational, not diagnostic. Sexual orientation is complex and personal. These results are meant as one tool for self-reflection, not a definitive label. Only you can determine your sexual identity.

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